rule 1: become genuinely interested in other people.
1) 'do this and you will be welcome anywhere.'
2) 'you can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you'
3)'ask questions to other people, questions that they would enjoy answering'
what this quotes are showing us how to become liked by others. you show be interested in them and try to get to know them. they will enjoy you because you have the same things in common. 'As a writer, I've always been interested in others.' what this quote shows is that some people like to be interested in other because they enjoy someones way of life and they apply some of that way in them as well. you showed be friendly and ask them questions about there life and get to know the other person. they will be thankful that you care about them and they will have fun and will enjoy you. people enjoy it when they know someone cares about there interest.
rule 2 smile
1) "actions speak louder than words, and a smile says, i like you. you make me happy. i am glad to see you."
2)" you don't feel like smiling ? then force yourself to smile."
3)it creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in a business, and is the counter sign(witness or indication) of Friends
what this quote means is that you always have to smile no matter what happens. you should always be happy. you should think of life in a good way. this will make you be liked. people will see you and say look that the kid that always happy. people will talk good things about you. the second quotes means to make your self simile even in bad times make something good about it. you can just say your happy you have to show it with a smile.
rule 3: remember names
1) 'a man's name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language.'
2) "if you don't remember names, you are headed for trouble"
what this quotes means is that you have to know people by names. if you forget your friends names it shows that they are not important and they will be mad at you and will not like you. you make them fell not important and they will treat you bad. for example if you are trying to call a friend and you try to think about what there names is and you try hard to figure it out but you cant that shows you don't care about them. if you memorize a persons name even though you only meet them once that shows that you care and they will be happy because of that
Rule 4: be a good listener. Encourage other to talk about themselves.
1(“ if you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener.”
2( “remember that the man you are taking to is a hundred times more interested in himself and his wants and his problems than he is in you and your problem”
What this quote means is that you should listen to others problems. People will think that you care about them and they will enjoy you and whenever you need help in life they will help you out as well. When you listen to other problems and give them advice it helps them and you. You are more comfortable when people tell you their problems.
Rule 5: talk terms of the other man’s interest .
‘The royal road to a man's heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures the most’.
What this quote is trying to say is that you can only win the heart of a person with you like the stuff that his likes as well. Try to have the same interest in him like the stuff he likes. If he like to play video games talk to him about it ask him question and maybe you can even play the games with him. This will show him that you care and that you guys have the same things in common. He will like you and enjoy your company and will be happy that he found a girl that's he likes.
rule 6: make the other person feel important--and do it sincerely
"the desire to be important in the deepest urge in human nature." (john Dewey)" helping people feel important and appreciated works magic ."
what this is trying to say is that you have to be able to make people feel good. they will enjoy you and it will make them feel important. it brings up there selfastim and they have more success in life. if someone is having a hard time in life you cheer them up and make them feel special and then will thank you for that. you can make someone life different with kind words about them. they will be thankful for you being so nice. they will enjoy you
this over all reflection say is that this rules will lead to more Friends. people will like you for the rules you are using these rules will lead you to success. all these rules will help you succeed in life no matter what happens. my deepest thoughts are that everyone should apply these method to make people like you. these will change your life forever. i will apply all of this rules in my life in order to make more Friends in my life.
also this will helps my social skills in life . these methods should be followed by everyone.
